Changing BJJ Gyms — How to Leave Gracefully and Fit Into a New Gym

Moving house, starting school, a new job, a change of instructor — sometimes you have to switch gyms. You're free to train wherever you like, but there is a right way to leave with good manners and settle naturally into a new gym.

Before you decide — five things to reconsider

• Actual distance vs. how far it feels — try the new commute for a week
• Don't decide on fees and schedule alone — the atmosphere and the instructor's style matter too
• Could a conversation with your current instructor fix things? (if dissatisfaction is the reason)
• If a promotion is close at your current gym, finish that first and then move
• Will you regret it? Taking one more week to think is better

How to leave with good manners

1. Tell your instructor in person — Not by text. Visit, say thank you, and explain your situation honestly
2. Don't lie — Say you're moving away and then get spotted at another gym in the same neighborhood, and your reputation is gone
3. Attend a last class — Say goodbye to your teammates. A farewell meal is nice if you can
4. Settle your fees — Leave cleanly with nothing unpaid
5. No bad-mouthing on social media — If you part on good terms, it won't be awkward when you meet at the same tournament later

Your new gym — adapting in the first month

• Humble mode — Don't show off your belt. Walk in like a white belt and just roll quietly
• Relationships first — For the first two weeks, get to know the people more than the techniques
• Never bad-mouth your old gym — It's the number one thing new teammates dislike
• Learn the instructor's style — if their game is different, don't force yours. Follow along for at least three months
• Stay in touch with your old teammates — your network is an asset

Will your belt be recognized?

Many gyms recognize your existing belt as is, but some have a short evaluation period. This isn't rude — it's the new instructor's responsibility: every belt at their gym is one they stand behind. Accept it with an easy mind.